Dreams and Visions are always Secret.

thinking or decision finding/making, has been a longtime problem and a hiderance to success of many.. one has to know; there is personal thinking and group thinking or decission making. Here; we never have realise by ourselves which one do we ought to when face by a situation which needs deep think.. personal thinkig always happens to take place when one sits lonely and try to figure out what ways forward, or regreting for something that has happened. this one realy gives a deeper consultation betweens ones mind(brain). Meanwhile; group thinking is a collective decission to target a situation or get a solution to problems hindering the great society or group of people leaving together, regardless of relativeness, ethinicity, sex, religion, race or any other social indifference as long as goals are the same. precisely; thinking have been misshandled! people failed to follow which thinking he/she wanted. others tent to have plans or vission that would be more potential in his life to think about, For example, Thinking of; “buy or not to buy an underwear.” Now, does that requires group consultation or further exposure? one may also think to meet with his girlfriend, one may thinks of what to achive after graduating, does this all needs consultations? I have come to figured out, most people lost to meet their success because they expose too much and goes for many consultaion, sometimes other privacies does not need consultaion, always every personal dream and visions are said to be secret because, its one's/individual thinking and that does not need breaching it out or exposing anyhow, only thinks to be of a group are to be exposed and shared for further consultations from friends, because they every persons’ concern and benefits, but never your personal/individual thoughts or dreams.. the reason as to why many lost hope to their personal thought is because they went beyond the boundary of personal thinking. Remeber; not everyone in the community or your friend or even your relatives would like to here your dreams or visions. that’s the point some people end up giving discouragement about an idea base on their interpretation and understanding. you may find one can tell you more thousand disandvatages and obstacles to your idea, they can even give right reasons and support for their ideas, just because to ruin your dreams, and it’s never their mistake to downfall your plans, but it’s your personal misunderstanding to fail understood between personal and group visions. you may find those who may also encourage you and those who will not even give a comment on your idea, just because its never of their concern and its never of their benefit.thats why, you shouldn’t go beyond your own thinking. "let your thinking/dreams/vissions be your private issue like things you do under the roof with your wife" ofcourse they never happened to be exposed. this will therefore; build your innermost confidence to do and achive something. this will keep presure in you to ever work according to your personal goals.. "Let community dreams be for all community, and always keep yours to be yours" never goes beyond boundary of exposure! jealous are not those far from you, but are those eating with you in the same table. in conclusion, build privacy, confidence, hard work, dream, and vision. let your goals be testimonies that will inspire to aspire! My little observations! MAY GOD BLESS YOUR DREAMS!! by William Brown Inyasio Aburi