It happened today, that; I never realized I spoke in anger with an elderly person, after he asked a very silly question and a story statement to me. I didn’t totally realized how I replied, whether cruelly
Or politely, but I felt the emotions my body was.. Next to me; were other compatriots and colleagues who bursted into laughters because of my response. I never had remembered a single harsh words that came from my mouth, but my friends did.. OMG! I became sorry and apologizing for it. But as it’s said sometimes, “always a silly question deserves a silly answer.” And I think my silly answer (response) was fit in a right place, if the questioneer won’t apologize for his talks too.
This was the worst day to my elder.
The Morals of my this trues stories:
1. One must ask questions or tell stories which will never anger the audience (the respondents). Especially for the researchers, in this manner; you may not get the right answer to your questions or compliments to your narrated story. Otherwise; research students must be careful in asking questions.
2. Politeness: questioneers must use this persuasive words like (pleases, excuse, sorry) in the beginning of every question to at least help the respondents pay good attention as a result of your politeness.
3. Finally; always a bad mouth is replied with a a bad mouth while the good will receive the good mouth too.
No comments:
Post a Comment